The local Christian church has more than its share of critics
these days. Sometimes the criticism is unwarranted. People who stand up
for life, traditional marriage and absolute truth often find themselves the
recipients of disapproving looks at best or objects of profane language at
worst. And, of course, the local church will inevitably run into criticism.
What we’re doing is counter-cultural and will never be met with universal
applause. The Gospel, even when powerfully shared, got John the Baptist, the
Apostle Paul, Jesus and the prophets killed, just to name a few. While it seems
strange to say it, even speaking truth in love, when seen fully and
magnificently, gets rejected.
But other times we absolutely deserve the criticism that comes our way.
Often these days, it seems, we’re not ridiculed or persecuted because
we’re fighting nobly. Nope, sometimes we just shoot ourselves in the foot.
Here is ONE thing that, in the view of many (cf. C. Nieuwhop), would help the
mission of the local church become more authentic and more effective if we
could just stop doing it. (REMEMBER THIS THE NEXT TIME YOU ARE ON FACEBOOK!)
Being So Weird Online
Too many Christians come across online as either:
Toxic (Hello angry
ranters, trolls and haters);
Cynical (Yes, we know
you’re disappointed with everyone all the time and no one gets it as right as
you); or
Syrupy (So sweet we can’t
stand the taste and are not really sure you live in the real world)
Why do so many Christians think their social media feed is a place to show the
world their weirdness? It gives the impression that if you’re going to
follow Jesus you also need to become socially awkward. I know people
might say, “No, I’m just being authentic or I'm just being transparent”. But
being authentic or transparent does not mean being odd.
If you go to post something and you think, "Well, that would be
self-aggrandizing if I said that to someone", that’s a red flag. You are
about to announce your narcissism to the world via social media!. Just
say "no"! Similarly, if you think, “Well, If i said that at
work in the lunch room, everybody would leave the table,” then maybe don’t say
it.
If you’re always angry or cynical or all you do is complain online and you
think, “Well, I wouldn’t want to be friends with someone like that in real
life,” then that’s a clue that maybe you shouldn’t say it. And if you
think, “Well, then I’ll have nothing to post,” then you’ve likely put your
finger on a deeper issue.
Christians, let’s just stop being so weird online, okay?
The local Christian church has more than its share of critics
these days. Sometimes the criticism is unwarranted. People who stand up
for life, traditional marriage and absolute truth often find themselves the
recipients of disapproving looks at best or objects of profane language at
worst. And, of course, the local church will inevitably run into criticism.
What we’re doing is counter-cultural and will never be met with universal applause. The Gospel, even when powerfully shared, got John the Baptist, the Apostle Paul, Jesus and the prophets killed, just to name a few. While it seems strange to say it, even speaking truth in love, when seen fully and magnificently, gets rejected.
But other times we absolutely deserve the criticism that comes our way. Often these days, it seems, we’re not ridiculed or persecuted because we’re fighting nobly. Nope, sometimes we just shoot ourselves in the foot.
Here is ONE thing that, in the view of many (cf. C. Nieuwhop), would help the mission of the local church become more authentic and more effective if we could just stop doing it. (REMEMBER THIS THE NEXT TIME YOU ARE ON FACEBOOK!)
Being So Weird Online
Too many Christians come across online as either:
Toxic (Hello angry ranters, trolls and haters);
Cynical (Yes, we know you’re disappointed with everyone all the time and no one gets it as right as you); or
Syrupy (So sweet we can’t stand the taste and are not really sure you live in the real world)
Why do so many Christians think their social media feed is a place to show the world their weirdness? It gives the impression that if you’re going to follow Jesus you also need to become socially awkward. I know people might say, “No, I’m just being authentic or I'm just being transparent”. But being authentic or transparent does not mean being odd.
If you go to post something and you think, "Well, that would be self-aggrandizing if I said that to someone", that’s a red flag. You are about to announce your narcissism to the world via social media!. Just say "no"! Similarly, if you think, “Well, If i said that at work in the lunch room, everybody would leave the table,” then maybe don’t say it.
If you’re always angry or cynical or all you do is complain online and you think, “Well, I wouldn’t want to be friends with someone like that in real life,” then that’s a clue that maybe you shouldn’t say it. And if you think, “Well, then I’ll have nothing to post,” then you’ve likely put your finger on a deeper issue.
Christians, let’s just stop being so weird online, okay?